Ramadhan 2015

Ahlan Wasahlan Ya ramadhan!

Tak sangka sekejap sangat dah masuk bulan ramadhan. eh, ramadhan kali ni pulak dah berdua :') siapa sangka kan? Percaturan yang Allah buat tu cantik sangat. we never know what will happen in the future, but the future itself inshaAllah cantik letaknya..

harini dah masuk ramadhan ke 7. time flies. malam ni dah masuk terawih ke 8. what is your achievement so far? lets embrace our ramadhan with something meaningful. good deeds throughout this month shall we? :)

When Ramadan enters, the gates of Paradise are opened, the gates of Hellfire are closed and the devils are chained. (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

Every action a son of Adam does shall be multiplied—a good action by ten times its value, up to 700 times. Allah says: With the exception of fasting, which belongs to Me, and I reward it accordingly. For, one abandons his desire and food for My sake. There are two occasions of joy for a fasting person: one when he breaks his fast, and the other when he meets his Lord, and the (bad) breath (of a fasting person) is better in the sight of Allah than the fragrance of musk. (Al-Bukhari)

Assalamualaikum ♥♥

Hectic week(s)

Assalamualaikum everyone!

plus minus another 2 weeks left for me to submit my final draft of my thesis. (which all the marks will be given during this period)

dan kite blank.

betul betul blank

sebab tak siap lagi

hehehe padan muka sendiri

:/

tapi dalam stress buat thesis tambah lagi dengan workload assignment, ada presentation, kena buat poster. semua berturut turut huwaaaa. tambah lagi dengan macam macam benda eh memang menduga emosi tau. but there is rainbow after every storm. sebab nanti masa tengah stress tu mesti ada je yang akan buat awak tersenyum balik. ada je yang akan buat awak gelak and tanpa sedar stress tu semua hilang. :)

Always believe that things happen for a reason. walaupun kadang kadang diri sendiri susah nak chill bila berhadapan masalah, i always remind myself to be positive. if you failed to do so, remember that there is always next time where you can fix it! :) not everything is perfectly done at the first time. jadi... taknak down okays!


tata! see you when i see you :)

kawin awal, salah ke?

Salam alaykum

Last few days marks our second monthsarry for our marriage life.. long journey to go i know. but i am happy with what i choose basically about my new journey.

Baru-baru ni kite hadap dua situasi which is about the negative feedback regarding early marriage. well, i am one of the couple who got married quite early and still studying as the bonus point for people to point their fingers at me and husband saying that we both are not ready enough for this new phase. hmmm, at first kite malas nak take things seriously and thought that they just want to say that for fun. dengan niat nak mengusik, but if they keep repeating the same thing over and over again what do you think?

dan, tambahan kepada tu. my husband and i both nak sambung master. we both target for it even before we got married. last few weeks, ada perjumpaan dengan budak final semester regarding to pursue master or not. and the lecturer saying about married thinggy. dia kata, maybe some of the sv don't take people yang dah kawin as a master student. and... kite macam what? orang yang dah kawin memang hilang hak nak sambung belajar ke? sobs. i know, some of the lecturer taknak ambik risiko dengan student yang dah kahwin sebab takut they are a bit more emosional kalau gaduh with their spouse.. but still, it is not a brilliant idea to discriminate couple who already got married to pursue their studies.

this case happened recently. i attended one program that teach us how to be ready with the real world etc. and one slot giving tips about facing the interviewer. one of the classmate said that me and hubs already married to the facilitator when she say to hubs that susahla nanti nak cari girlfriend (bila whole class know that me and hubs already married they keep teasing us with that married word, kite tak kisah infact im a proud married woman) the facilitator mula cakap pasal all predicted question the interviewer akan tanya and suddenly jump to part yang orang kahwin a bit susah nak dapat kerja. for example if the company want to relocate us to some other places. and again, kite macam *^^%*&,  ya, kite tahu married couple mestila nak live together, tapi takkan peluang bekerja pun kena sekat jugak untuk young couple like us? tsk tsk, pujuk diri sendiri untuk jadi positif.

Hadis ini diriwayatkan dengan lafaz:
" أيما شاب تزوج في حداثة سنه عج شيطانه: يا ويله يا ويله عصم مني دينه "

Maksudnya: Mana-mana pemuda yang berkahwin pada awal umurnya maka menjeritlah syaitan (dengan berkata): celaka dia, celaka dia. Terpelihara daripadaku agamanya. Hadis ini diriwayatkan dari Jabir bin Abdullah dari jalur Salih Maula al-Tau'amah. 

my hubs being him will comfort me. we get married early because this is our path. we choose it, our both families encourage us to do so, we live happily plus we get pahala with it. kite yakin, kawin awal banyak kebaikan dari keburukan. dan to this point, kite happy bila orang terdekat sentiasa ada untuk support kite dan suami. takda salah kawin masa belajar, infact this is a good way. more pahala kan? :) even my both parents seriously sangat supportive, kite happy sebab diorang sentiasa ada untuk kite dengan suami. i believe things happen for a reason and biasala kalau dalam apa yang kita buat mesti ada yang tak setuju :)

Rasulullah bersabda 

"Wahai para pemuda, sesiapa di antara kamu yang mampu memikul tanggungjawab perkahwinan, hendaklah dia kahwin. Sesungguhnya perkahwinan itu menahan pandangan dan memelihara kemaluan (kesucian). Bagi sesiapa yang tidak mampu (berkahwin) maka hendaklah dia berpuasa, kerana puasa itu dapat menahan nafsunya" 

(H.R.Bukhari & Muslim)

if people come and ask me, are you happy to be married? and i said, of course i am happy. who doesn't right? :)

till then!

Before i am officially graduated.

Assalamualaikum and Hello! (echo sound as the background)

I will end my degree life in few more months. Happy and sad, both feeling mix together. 

how can i describe my degree journey..
well.. roller coaster ride maybe?

Fun roller coaster ride... and sad.
sebenarnya tak tahu nak describe macam mana. sebab betul betul bercampur baur perasaan macam ABC. sedapnyaaaa ABC aiskrim. tskkk tskkk mana nak dapat malam gini T_T

To be honest, i love my surrounding. you know, the small numbers of people that i will treasure for the rest of my life. i will miss the moment with them. happy and sad moments together. the little things that we did together from the beginning of my degree life. i cannot imagine how time flies. like real fast. like hello now i am married woman okays?! :'D

Not everything were happy as sugar.. But the bitter moments i felt, make me become who i am today. i survived to the final rally! phewww. to someone, it may looks easy. but to me, i felt proud of myself. cerita macam dah konvo kan? belum ye anak anak. haha. ni kira macam part one road to konvo lah. ;') ;') ;') dengan thesis yang kena siapkan, i should write my thesis in a faster pace i think. my spirit in writing thesis fluctuate according to my mood. there is no consistent phase of writing thesis in the life of Maisarah. -_-


Okay, lets skip that part.

picture courtesy from google.

Yapppp, i totally agree with this word. Kadang-kadang, me myself love to compare myself with others. i mean, with others ability or advantage that they have in their life. ya i know its not a good attitude but i cant help myself :/

sometimes i think why that people excel in their studies but not me

sometimes i think why that people beautiful but no me

sometimes i think why that people easily get whatever they desire in their life

bad right? with the help of time, i slowly advice myself to be happy with my life. well i manage to comfort myself with that statement most of the time even though sometimes i still have that feeling of WHY. But, do not feel bad of yourself to think of that way, that is a nature feeling in our self. because at the same time, we need to remember maybe others feels like that about us. kan? maybe someone else think why we have this life and why they did not have the opportunity to have life like us. what you have in your life, be thankful, value your life be happy and chin up! :)

toodles!

Bad wedding planner service

Assalamualaikum! i am someone wife few weeks ago! phewwww. change into new status..... hmmm i can say its thrilled! :'D

Sebenarnya kite nak cakap pasal majlis kite few weeks ago. this one thing keep mingling thru my mind and i think i should spill it here. i deal a package consist of hand bouquet, dais and make up from someone that my parents happened to know, and i thought the deal will be so much easier, and it was at first. sweet thing that they promised to make my dream change into reality, turns into a bitter sweet memory for my wedding journey.

i. Dais - my dad ask for a mini dais with full background coverage, they told me that i need to pay extra because of that full coverage. to avoid being as a fussy customer, i agreed to paid them extra. at first, they promise to come and pasang the dais three days before my big day, but then because they say its raining and bla bla bla they will come next day early in the morning. i text them back tomorrow morning and asked at what time will they arrived. Only at 11a.m she replied and say soon because at that moment they are loading things into their car. so, i waited for more than 2 hours for them to arrived even the distance of their shop to my house just 10 minutes away -_- they arrived nearly at 2 p.m. they took hours to pasang it, forgot their thing some more to bring. Near to 5 pm only they settled their thing with totally unexpected dais as the result. to make it worse they asked my mum carpet to cover the dais which make it totally ridiculous. things getting worse, people come and ask whether we diy-ed the dais. can you imagine?:( not a happy customer i am.

ii. Hand bouquet - few weeks before the day, the planner ask me what kind of hand bouquet i prefer, and i choose fresh flowers. she insisted me to took the artificial instead of fresh flowers hand bouquet because she said it last longer plus she will decorate the hand bouquet looks like real fresh flower. it rings a bell in my head an i thought it was a good idea. but... it breaks my heart when i saw the hand bouquet, not close to what imagine, plus it looks like someone had used it before. to make it bitter, the planner ask back for the hand bouquet. i thought it will be mine. she said i'm confused all artificial flower need to be returned back (it is the policy they said) and if im not believe with what she said she asked me to refer to other planner. can u imagine she siad that to her customer? :/ this put me into anger and i printscreen our conversation and send it back to her. she keep saying she was right and i handle the case to my dad. later, she didn't reply my whats app anymore.

iii. make up - she did my make up. i never wore make up before and she made me nightmare with it. i hate seeing myself on my special day, because she change me into someone else. i ask for natural make up, she give me a heavy make up instead. i can feel this coming, that was why i wanted to have a trial session before my big day. she insisted that she can do this and we do not need a trial session. go for someone who can keep with their promise. she promise to come at 7, but she came near to 8 am where my akad was held at 9 am. she make up me in hurry, my eyes make up was not balance. my lips was not balance. total failed. and the aftermath? she ruin my day.

just to ensure you have a pleasant day on your big day, make sure you check first. i did but still janji manis di taburkan lalu gelap mataku pada janji manisnya, haha. i hope this thing wont happen to any of you! i am happily married. just that one glitches during my day make me a grumpy bride.

See you guys later!