How do you teach your kids about their private part?

Assalamualaikum

(Disclaimer: Do not read if you are not here to help oki?)

I feel the need of writing this and I really need your help as well. Can u please spare some honest opinion after you read this entry please?

Semalam masa I mandikan icha, icha suddenly cakap macamni

“icha kena basuh p***k, kalau tak busuk ibu ida kata”

……and my jaws dropped.

Lepas siapkan icha, terus I whatsapp husband.

-----and he was shocked as well.

Never in my life I teach her that word. 

I use bunga and bum bum instead the real word, and I use wiwi (as in : buang air kecil) and pupu (as in: buang air besar) too.

But recently, she started to use “kencing” and “berak”. I don’t favor those words eventho tu ayat sebetulnya haha. kadang kadang she use pupu and wiwi jugak.  But since there was nothing wrong with that word, I just let it go.

Bila semalam icha start guna p***k referring to her private part, it slaps me. I definitely don’t like that word, and for me ayat tu tak proper langsung. I tak marahkan pengasuh icha pun. Different people different approach in teaching their kids, sama macam i jugak. Bukan salah icha jugak cakap macamtu sebab she know nothing kan?

Kitorang over sangat ke.. I don’t know... maybe just me who felt it that way. Am I not the chill mom? Am I overthink? Someone pls. Can u help me here?

When is the right time you teach your kids about their private part?

And you normally called it as?

Does your kid follow? 

Or did they ask banyak soalan sampai u sendiri tak boleh nak jawab?

Thank you in advance! 

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